How to maintain intimacy while growing tiny humans: everything dual career and power couples need to know

Season #1 Episode #2

“There are small things you can do as baby’s on the way, so that you don't lose each other. Silliness and laughter open up your heart, which strengthens emotional intimacy. During pregnancy, rubbing on the mama's belly, hips, and lower back is orgasmic in and of itself! And you can ignite and move that same energy even when you have a crying baby at home.”

In this episode, Balance and Relationship Expert Naketa Ren Thigpen joins Pros&Babes founder and CEO Kinia Romanowska to share how pregnancy and parenthood - and the hormonal changes couples experience later in life - affect desire, alongside practical tips we can act on every day to keep our relationship sizzling. 

This episode is all about cultivating intimacy as a couple at every stage, so that your relationship can stay healthy and grow stronger through the joys and challenges of parenthood - and beyond. 


0:00 Intro 

4:10 The transformations no one prepares us for, and how they affect intimacy 

5:39 What happens to libido when baby’s on the way 

9:22 Orgasmic laughter!

11:42 Crying babies and other disruptions (...some are of your own making)

12:21 The magic of Pokémon 

14:07 “Mommy and Daddy need to rest:” how to stay intimate when the kids get inquisitive

17:38 Conversations you can’t avoid 

22:14 When sex is the elephant in room: why couples no longer talk about sex 

23:25 Can’t blame it on the kids!

26:35 “I’m growing....are you?”: how to stay together when self-growth is a solo journey


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Kinia Romanowska is mother of two, wife, and award-winning journalist turned founder and CEO of Pros&Babes. She helps women in STEM, competitive, and corporate careers (and their employers) turn the "motherhood penalty" into their greatest advantage, through the MoMBA™ (Mom MBA), a 12-month hybrid group coaching and 1-1 program.

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